You can shed tears that I am gone or you can smile because I have lived. 
You can close your eyes and pray that I will come back or you can open your eyes and see all I have left. Your heart can be empty because you can’t see me or you can be full of the love I shared. You can remember me and only that I am gone or you can cherish my memory and let it live on. 
You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back or you can do what I would want……. 
smile, open your eyes, love and go on. David Harkins